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How perception affect the behavior - Port Elizabeth
Tuesday, 08 December 2015
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Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape
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How perception affects the behavior
Jake and Justin are two close friends. One day they got introduced to a new woman who didn’t treat them well and who seemed to be arrogant according to their own perception.
On their way Home they further reinforced the way they perceived her by discussing the matter together. For the next few weeks they both tried to avoid her as much as they could.
Few weeks later Justin got introduced to a new woman who behaved the same way as the old one they knew earlier but this time the woman apologized for her behavior at the end of the meeting and said that she had a real bad day and that’s why she couldn’t smile. Justin got encouraged by her words and asked her what does she thinks of him and she replied telling him that he is a very interesting person.
At this point he come up with a new theory! What if the woman they met earlier had a bad day as well? What if the problem was with his perception and not with the woman!
What if his incorrect perception was controlling his behavior!
How incorrect perception can alter the behavior
At this point Justin decided to go back to the first woman with a smile on his face. Something he never did since the first time he met her. Because all human beings love to feel wanted and needed the woman responded in a good way to him and his theory was proven right!
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Jake and Justin are two close friends. One day they got introduced to a new woman who didn’t treat them well and who seemed to be arrogant according to their own perception.
On their way Home they further reinforced the way they perceived her by discussing the matter together. For the next few weeks they both tried to avoid her as much as they could.
Few weeks later Justin got introduced to a new woman who behaved the same way as the old one they knew earlier but this time the woman apologized for her behavior at the end of the meeting and said that she had a real bad day and that’s why she couldn’t smile. Justin got encouraged by her words and asked her what does she thinks of him and she replied telling him that he is a very interesting person.
At this point he come up with a new theory! What if the woman they met earlier had a bad day as well? What if the problem was with his perception and not with the woman!
What if his incorrect perception was controlling his behavior!
How incorrect perception can alter the behavior
At this point Justin decided to go back to the first woman with a smile on his face. Something he never did since the first time he met her. Because all human beings love to feel wanted and needed the woman responded in a good way to him and his theory was proven right!
Find out more on www.light-a-lamp.com